Are you a good thing? When your husband thinks about you, does a smile come across his lips? Not because of your outward appearance, but because of your inner beauty-"the hidden person of the heart, with incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
Your husband's God give need to connect with you physically means just as much to him as good communication means to you.
Are you ready to ask God to help you be merciful toward your husband no matter what? In doing, your attitude toward him is sure to reflect God's grace. And as you make it a habit to cover your husband's shortcomings with compassion, you might find him responding in kind.