If My Husband Would Change...& Other Myths Wives Believe

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Are you at a place in your marriage where you feel like, "He would love me more if I were pretty," or "I'm falling out of love with him"? Well, you can refer back to my earlier post about my opinion on all of this, but Rhonda Stoppe has gone into even greater detail on the subject.

In her new book, If My Husband Would Change I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe, she covers some serious ground of the lies we tell ourselves in marriage. Even greater about this book, is we get a "Husband's Perspective" from her husband, Steve. This is great insight, ladies!
Rhonda changes the game. This isn't a book about how to make your marriage perfect, how to belittle your spouse into doing what you want, or how to use your kids against your husband. This book is actually little about your husband and so much about the wife.

Are you a good thing? When your husband thinks about you, does a smile come across his lips? Not because of your outward appearance, but because of your inner beauty-"the hidden person of the heart, with incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)

Your husband's God give need to connect with you physically means just as much to him as good communication means to you.

Are you ready to ask God to help you be merciful toward your husband no matter what? In doing, your attitude toward him is sure to reflect God's grace. And as you make it a habit to cover your husband's shortcomings with compassion, you might find him responding in kind.


Like most brides on their wedding day, you no doubt were filled with love for your husband and the hope of a happy life together.

But perhaps today, as the realities of life together have settled in, those happy expectations are going unfulfilled. And it's tempting to think, "If only my husband would change, I'd be happy."

That myth is but one of many that Rhonda Stoppe dispels in her easy-to-read exploration of what it takes to experience a truly happy marriage. In the process, she addresses such important topics as

-understanding your husband's need for your unconditional respect
-rekindling the love that drew you to your husband in the first place
-refusing to believe the lie that you'd be happier married to someone else
-learning to be content in the midst of financial struggles
-thinking about sex from a biblical worldview

If you desire to rekindle the love and hope you felt on your wedding day, this book will go a long way toward making that dream come true.

Contains discussion questions and personal reflections at the end of each chapter.

Check out other reviews for the book, HERE.

Rhonda Stoppe is the No Regrets Woman. She is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. With more than 20 years' experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor's wife, Rhonda's wisdom and experience helps women discover significance in God and His specific purpose for their lives, connect biblical principles to everyday decisions, develop a loving marriage that others dream about, and influence the next generation by raising children with integrity.

*I received this book in exchange for my honest review*

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